Happily Ever After

I have always had a preoccupation with fairytales, true love’s kiss, and happily ever afters. The little girl who watched Aladdin every day and wanted to be princess is still in me. And temple marriage is something that I think beautifully encompasses the perfect fairytale that we can have. 4 Nephi 1:11 says, “They were married…and were blessed.” What an amazing little phrase. In this perfect Zion society briefly described by Mormon in 4 Nephi, he chooses to include that they were married and blessed because of it. Marriage is such an important aspect of God’s plan; it’s part of that celestial life that is God’s hope for us. And it is magnificent to reflect on the wonderful institution that marriage is. It is both a “happily ever after” and a “once upon a time” because it does end that search for your prince, but it also opens up the door to eternal families and eternal life. One of my favorite quotes is from President Uchtdorf, where he says, “You are truly royal spirit daughters of Almighty God. You are princesses, destined to become queens. Your own wondrous story has already begun. Your “Once upon a time” is now…And the day will come when you turn the final pages of your own glorious story; there you will read and experience the fulfillment of those blessed and wonderful words: And they lived happily ever after.” This is what temple marriage can bring. Temple marriage gives you the perfect fairytale because it gives you the blessing of forever.

It Will Be Worth It

It is often easy to wonder if it’s all worth it, if everything we have to go through matters. In 3 Nephi 22:7-8 it says, “For a small moment have I forsaken thee, but with great mercies will I gather thee…I hid my face from thee for a moment, but with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee.” To me this means that our experience on earth is when God hides His face from us. While we’re here we’re not with Him like we used to be. But He will have mercy on us and let us come back to Him. Sometimes on this earth it will be hard, it will feel like God has forsaken us, like we are completely alone, and like it’s not worth it. But this separation is only for a “small moment,” it is nothing in the grand scheme of things. There is so much more in store for us. If we will follow the Lord, His face will never really be hidden from us. And as a result of our earthly experience and through his mercy, we can receive blessings beyond our comprehension. The wife of my bishop once said in a Sunday school lesson, that when you are kneeling across the altar from your eternal spouse, you will never regret anything you had to do to be there. Likewise, when we are blessed with eternal salvation, we will see that everything from our life mattered and that it was worth all of the horrible and painful things we had to go through to get there.  The Savior never told us it would be easy, He only told us it would be worth it.

We Are Loved

It is so amazing to me how much Christ loves us. There are three instances in 3 Nephi that make this really stick out to me. The first is in chapter 17:1-2. He says that He recognizes that the people are weak and are having a hard time understanding, but instead of giving up on them, He tells them He will come back tomorrow. This shows me that the Savior won’t quit on us. He is so willing to help because we were not sent here to fail. The next witness of His love comes in verse twenty-one, which says, “He wept…and he took their little children, one by one, and blessed them, and prayed unto the Father for them.” First, this scripture shows that we have a God who weeps, and incredible quality for out God to have. I love when it says he prayed for the children and blessed them one by one. This shows that intimate part of the atonement. He cares about each of us individually. He knows exactly how to bless each of us. There is a song that I think captures this perfectly. “When He had a world to save, He had a world of time, to stop and hold a little child. He heals one by one, loves one by one…He knows us one by one. The way He loves you, is one by one.” God doesn’t just love “us,” He loves “you.” The final instance is in chapter 18:31. “For behold I know my sheep, and they are numbered.” He knows and loves us more than we can understand. We are numbered to Him, He knows when we are lost, and He will help bring us back. I think it would help each of us a lot to “Remember the worth of souls,” our soul, “is great in the sight of God” (D&C 18:10).

"Your Father Knoweth"

It is often easy for me to think that God doesn’t really care how my life is going. He probably doesn’t care when I’m overwhelmed with school, when I’m upset that my dating life isn’t going as well as I’d like, or when I feel stressed because I have no idea what I want to do with my life. It is hard for me to feel like Heavenly Father could possibly care about such small matters. But 3 Nephi 13 gives me a better perspective. In verse eight it says, “For your Father knoweth what things ye have need of.” To me this shows that God knows and cares about me, even if it’s sometimes hard to see.  He knows when I’m excited, when I’m sick, when I’m lonely, and when I’m afraid. And it is especially amazing to me to know that God knows and cares when I am sad. Christ feels my pain. In the last General Relief Society Meeting, Sister Linda S. Reeves said, “Our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ, know us and love us. They know when we are in pain or suffering in any way. They do not say, “It’s OK that you’re in pain right now because soon everything is going to be all right…They feel the depth of our suffering.” He doesn’t expect me to be fine because in that moment things aren’t fine. Jesus lets me weep and He weeps with me, and then he helps me to be okay. This shows to me that the Savior really does know “what things [I] have need of,” because it shows He understands me. He truly “remembereth every creature of his creating” (Mosiah 27:30).